Thursday, November 28, 2024

OVER EMPLOYED : A Job in Great Demand During Growing Unemployment that No One Applies For

 Unemployment is a situation where someone is actively looking for work but unable to find it. Despite being on every political party’s manifesto ever, it is something that’s always been a work in progress. Unemployment is growing and will soon be in double digits. But here is an industry that is over-employing and still growing.

Here’s a sneak-peek at the average yearly unemployment rate in India over the past 10 years.

YEAR

UNEMPLOYMENT RATE

2014-2019

3.4% - 3.6%

2020

23.5% (April)

2021

7.33%

2023

8.03%

2024

7.8%

 

According to most economic commentators, the unemployment situation is worsening. But there’s one underrated industry that has had an upward curve irrespective of the  aforementioned unemployment rates, the economic scenario and the volatile Indian market : The Indian household.

Approximately 10 million weddings take place in India annually, recruiting 10 million new unsuspecting employees to this industry. It won’t, however, occur to these new employees that they are new hires until after the first night (or first day ‘on the job’).

More often, these new hires are given a notice period called the engagement. However, no one prepares for the job description awaiting them- the ‘daughter-in-law’- a title that fits many roles into one. Oh, did I say that these employees are only women because only the ‘fairer sex’ is expected to move to a different household, city, or country for a job that has no distinct job title and perks?

The daughters-in-law are expected to take charge as soon they finish customary rituals and ceremonies where the parents of the decorated employee hand over their life’s treasure to the manager of the household who vows to look after the employee but eventually forgets to as the reigns are controlled solely by the owner of the organization (household).

The newly designated employee’s job description is rather straight-forward — to cater to the needs of everyone including superiors and subordinates, not to question or challenge the workings of the household, to avoid expressing dislikes, to ignore the urge to bring any changes (generally positive but unwelcome) and never to offer their opinion. These exist as unwritten, nevertheless binding, contracts, although the new employees are never told about it during their engagement period.

Their contract has no clauses for their benefits, except that they (often, but not necessarily always) have a secure, amicable ambiance to work, apart from free stay and complimentary food (although mostly prepared by them).

There is no negotiation on salary, off or sick leaves. They work for no pay and no holidays. On the other hand, they work overtime during holidays and the festive season. Their employment contract subtly extends to uninvited clients and unforgiving relative organizations (i.e., households).

A part of the job profile is to keep the new company (i.e., household) premises clean and hygienic, even when the organization’s members are not very clean and hygienic themselves. But that is not all: she has the additional task of taking care of the physical and mental well-being of all the members, even as she faces the danger of a personal mental and physical breakdown.

In other industries, new employees are sometimes provided with joining perks. In the household industry, the new employee is expected to bring in gifts- not just while joining but at subsequent regular intervals!

The expectations to change the way they dress, sit, walk, talk, and behave (including renunciation of their dreams, ambitions and voice) are expressed so nonchalantly that the employees now come to believe that they lived a false life until then. The rule is to keep others above themselves at all times, irrespective of the treatment they receive. It is also presumed that they would successfully contribute towards growing the strength of the household by bringing in more wealth in the form of babies, preferably boys (so that the strength only grows).

The daughters-in-law are the first to wake up and last to retire, the ones who cook and last ones to eat, the ones to care for everyone and not be cared for and the ones who work selflessly never to be acknowledged.

It is an amazingly designed, fool-proof mechanism that has been prevalent since time immemorial. The employees who challenge the system are fired and the ones who do not, continue to be slaves of the household till death do them apart.

Research shows that the wedding season will witness a surge with 4.8 million marriages by the year-end of 2024 alone. While the country sets out to celebrate the wedding season and boost the local economy, I quietly join my hands in the quiet corner of my organization (household) and pray that the almighty bestows the new employees to this wretched but ever-green industry with enormous strength because, well, this is all that we can hope to accomplish. The Hope of appreciation is the only thing that will keep them attached to their organization (household).

 GOD BLESS!

CHS

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