We watched Dil bechara last night. It was an extremely emotional journey after which I tightly hugged hubby for a good five minutes, never wanting to leave and not at all wanting him to go.
I don't really know how to put my views about it in words. I am still giving it a try.
Sushanth's dhamakedar entry brought a smile on my face. His lively, happy, fun loving character took me with him. His smile made me fall for him all over again, his moves made me dance, his words gave me hope and his pain transfered to me even through the small screen. I was thrilled to see him alive and it broke my heart when I realized he isn't.
There were moments of pure joy, deep love, great friendship, positive parenting and truth about life and death. It is indeed a piece of art that every single person must watch.
"We cannot decide when to be born or when to die but we can decide how we can live our life"....
From movies like Aanand, Kal Ho Na Ho, Chicchore, Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara, we have learnt and understood that this is one life we have and we must do what makes us happy and live it to the brim. This is one facet touched in Dil Bechara.
When Sushanth said "I want to attend my funeral" I so wished I could do that too..
But there is one thing that I connected to instantly. It is something I keep thinking about too often, how will the people I love go on after I am gone and this facet is brought about very beautifully too..
I am really keen on knowing if my dear ones will miss me, what is it that will remind them if me, whether I would have a piece of their heart or if I'll be forgotten with passing years...
Well that is not in my hands but I want to make sure that the thought of me makes them smile, that I have influenced them in a positive way, that they miss the good times we share.
While I write this, my thoughts are drifting to the bestest friend one could ever have. He is not with us in body but his spirits were so lit, it can still brighten dull moods, his stupid jokes make me smile, his praises for me make me swell, his way of life inspires me to be.
I had my first drink with him, we had each other's back, we lied for each other, had our jokes, shared our experiences, joys, fears, secrets and when I got the news of his demise, I could only remember him with tears.
I did not cry after that because he is meant to be remembered that way. I have lost a few other people in these years but I have somehow never felt their absence.
So when you loose someone that held a piece of your heart, keep them alive in your good memories. Talk about them, share your joys with them, feel them hold your hand when you reach out.
When a body leaves us to join the spirit world, there may or may not be a life after that but here on earth, we do have a life after such people are gone.
There is undoubtedly a hollow left behind but that should not stop us from continuing our journey. In the end, all of us will meet again and this time, together forever...
Until that happens, lets remember, cherish, rejoice and relive the best moments with the best ones we have or we had...
CHEERS!
GOD BLESS!!
CHS
I don't really know how to put my views about it in words. I am still giving it a try.
Sushanth's dhamakedar entry brought a smile on my face. His lively, happy, fun loving character took me with him. His smile made me fall for him all over again, his moves made me dance, his words gave me hope and his pain transfered to me even through the small screen. I was thrilled to see him alive and it broke my heart when I realized he isn't.
There were moments of pure joy, deep love, great friendship, positive parenting and truth about life and death. It is indeed a piece of art that every single person must watch.
"We cannot decide when to be born or when to die but we can decide how we can live our life"....
From movies like Aanand, Kal Ho Na Ho, Chicchore, Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara, we have learnt and understood that this is one life we have and we must do what makes us happy and live it to the brim. This is one facet touched in Dil Bechara.
When Sushanth said "I want to attend my funeral" I so wished I could do that too..
But there is one thing that I connected to instantly. It is something I keep thinking about too often, how will the people I love go on after I am gone and this facet is brought about very beautifully too..
I am really keen on knowing if my dear ones will miss me, what is it that will remind them if me, whether I would have a piece of their heart or if I'll be forgotten with passing years...
Well that is not in my hands but I want to make sure that the thought of me makes them smile, that I have influenced them in a positive way, that they miss the good times we share.
While I write this, my thoughts are drifting to the bestest friend one could ever have. He is not with us in body but his spirits were so lit, it can still brighten dull moods, his stupid jokes make me smile, his praises for me make me swell, his way of life inspires me to be.
I had my first drink with him, we had each other's back, we lied for each other, had our jokes, shared our experiences, joys, fears, secrets and when I got the news of his demise, I could only remember him with tears.
I did not cry after that because he is meant to be remembered that way. I have lost a few other people in these years but I have somehow never felt their absence.
So when you loose someone that held a piece of your heart, keep them alive in your good memories. Talk about them, share your joys with them, feel them hold your hand when you reach out.
When a body leaves us to join the spirit world, there may or may not be a life after that but here on earth, we do have a life after such people are gone.
There is undoubtedly a hollow left behind but that should not stop us from continuing our journey. In the end, all of us will meet again and this time, together forever...
Until that happens, lets remember, cherish, rejoice and relive the best moments with the best ones we have or we had...
CHEERS!
GOD BLESS!!
CHS
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