Sany asked me to watch a video named "In Your Arms" on youtube. Nice video, but the beginning of it intrigued me. Here goes the first scene...
Husband and wife on the dining table, looking at their respective plates, playing with the food, lost deep in thought. "I want to tell you something" both say together. Wife nods and asks the husband to go first. He says "We've known each other for 14 years and married for 11 years now. It was a love marriage but now there is no love in this marriage. I love someone else. She is my colleague at office. I want a divorce.
Rest of the story just went by and eventually the husband realizes he loves only his wife but I was taken by these words "I love someone else". Two questions that quickly popped up "Can love happen more than once?" "Can the love that brings two people together for life, ever be gone?"
The first on was answered yes by my mind instantly. After all SRK proved it in KKHH ;)
The second one took away couple of my moments as I pondered... I asked hubby if he had the answer to the second one and after a few minutes of thinking he snored. So I continued my the brainstorm for a few days...
First of all there is this "True love" tag that comes with a relationship. I am of the opinion that there is no such thing as True love that happens only once. It is vastly subjective. Suppose you had a relationship but end up marrying someone else. You cannot say that what you had before marriage was the only true love. You cannot dismiss the Love care and support being put in by your spouse as just a relationship obligation. The thing that brings you together with another totally unknown soul cannot be anything less than true love.
Over the years with very little experience I have been able to answer this second question. I wont answer it though. These are some signs that might quite help to answer it.
Stay In Love.
Stay blessed.
Cheers!
CHS
Husband and wife on the dining table, looking at their respective plates, playing with the food, lost deep in thought. "I want to tell you something" both say together. Wife nods and asks the husband to go first. He says "We've known each other for 14 years and married for 11 years now. It was a love marriage but now there is no love in this marriage. I love someone else. She is my colleague at office. I want a divorce.
Rest of the story just went by and eventually the husband realizes he loves only his wife but I was taken by these words "I love someone else". Two questions that quickly popped up "Can love happen more than once?" "Can the love that brings two people together for life, ever be gone?"
The first on was answered yes by my mind instantly. After all SRK proved it in KKHH ;)
The second one took away couple of my moments as I pondered... I asked hubby if he had the answer to the second one and after a few minutes of thinking he snored. So I continued my the brainstorm for a few days...
First of all there is this "True love" tag that comes with a relationship. I am of the opinion that there is no such thing as True love that happens only once. It is vastly subjective. Suppose you had a relationship but end up marrying someone else. You cannot say that what you had before marriage was the only true love. You cannot dismiss the Love care and support being put in by your spouse as just a relationship obligation. The thing that brings you together with another totally unknown soul cannot be anything less than true love.
Over the years with very little experience I have been able to answer this second question. I wont answer it though. These are some signs that might quite help to answer it.
- True love makes, not breaks. Love binds you together. Something that takes you away from your dreams, your friends, your dear ones can not be true love.
- You cannot be unsure about it. If something keeps you sceptical and you are unable to make your mind up, dump it.
- One that you are ashamed of can never be love. Its the world's most beautiful feeling. You may not flaunt it but within you are proud of it.
- One that is monetary can not be love. Love asks for sacrifices but that is for the good of the relationship. But when it is measured in terms of money, its absurd.
- Love gives you strength. Hard to get through situations can be made a cakewalk by the mere presence of love.
- Love helps you rise. It may not give you wings to fly but it will also not bury you underground (I hope you get what I mean)
- In difficult situations, you always stand by your love. If you run away, you should run away forever!
- Love only blossoms, never fades away. It is for us to keep the shine going. If something bores you, you know what it is.
Stay In Love.
Stay blessed.
Cheers!
CHS
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