We face tense situations very often these days (or so we think). Even kids of age less than five have worries about unimaginable things.. Well we can't do much about those cute little things children worry about but I have noticed that our tensions can take a toll, not only on us but our work, relationships, family life and health as well.
In many such testing times, we all behave differently. While few of us may target spouse/ children or family to vent out our frustration, there are others who might quietly continue soaking the negativity until they succumb, there are yet another beings like me who simply go looking for solitude.
For all those who find your loved ones simply lost in thoughts, spoiling things unknowingly, not being able to live up to given responsibilities, there's just one suggestion, request rather.. Try to hear the silence in their words if they ever talk. They may look normal, might eat, sleep and talk well, might laugh once in a while and would carry on routine chores effortlessly but they are badly in need of someone.
Someone, not just to listen to them, talk to them or understand them but someone to help them overcome whatever it is that's causing trouble deep within. There is a need for the silence in their words to break. They should mean what they say and not just blabber things and move away. They must feel happy within rather than faking happiness. They ought to relish things they eat than just swallowing to live. In short, it is important to bring them back to life before their invisible wounds make them lifeless.
A very dear one seems to be facing the same but its unfortunate for me that I can't do much about it. I can only hope that life is not too harsh on her and would like to request you to do the same as well. Also, next time you see someone spoil things, ask them what the problem is rather than blaming them or punishing them for the mistake. This applies to bosses and seniors, spouses and parents, friends and siblings.
I know it is a little tedious but try to get in touch with your inner silence. It may not only bring turbulent storms to halt but answer a lot of disturbing questions which in turn could make things and life much simpler, easier, better and happier.
I read somewhere "If you can't be positive, at least be quiet" True to every word but make sure the silence makes you strong and doesn't break you down.
Cheers..!!
God Bless!
CHS
In many such testing times, we all behave differently. While few of us may target spouse/ children or family to vent out our frustration, there are others who might quietly continue soaking the negativity until they succumb, there are yet another beings like me who simply go looking for solitude.
For all those who find your loved ones simply lost in thoughts, spoiling things unknowingly, not being able to live up to given responsibilities, there's just one suggestion, request rather.. Try to hear the silence in their words if they ever talk. They may look normal, might eat, sleep and talk well, might laugh once in a while and would carry on routine chores effortlessly but they are badly in need of someone.
Someone, not just to listen to them, talk to them or understand them but someone to help them overcome whatever it is that's causing trouble deep within. There is a need for the silence in their words to break. They should mean what they say and not just blabber things and move away. They must feel happy within rather than faking happiness. They ought to relish things they eat than just swallowing to live. In short, it is important to bring them back to life before their invisible wounds make them lifeless.
A very dear one seems to be facing the same but its unfortunate for me that I can't do much about it. I can only hope that life is not too harsh on her and would like to request you to do the same as well. Also, next time you see someone spoil things, ask them what the problem is rather than blaming them or punishing them for the mistake. This applies to bosses and seniors, spouses and parents, friends and siblings.
I know it is a little tedious but try to get in touch with your inner silence. It may not only bring turbulent storms to halt but answer a lot of disturbing questions which in turn could make things and life much simpler, easier, better and happier.
I read somewhere "If you can't be positive, at least be quiet" True to every word but make sure the silence makes you strong and doesn't break you down.
Cheers..!!
God Bless!
CHS
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