We all must have encountered good and bad things in life.. Off late, I too have seen a lot of changes in relationships and people behavior. I could not help but find the reason for the unexpected circumstances that follow...
A prudent contemplation answered my question with just two words - Sharing and Caring...
I've observed that a lot of things in life turn to becoming problems as a result of lack of communication. Parent child relationships, matrimonial alliances, friendships... Tensions occur in all the spheres and they can be solved at the least levels by sharing. If people know we are hurt or have difficulty with few things they do, our side of tension has been taken care of. It's up to the other person to act next and its best for us to stay away from that space.. Some wise person had once said that crying lightens one's heart. I'm of the opinion that sharing unchains our hearts...
The other thing that can solve most of the hitches is Caring... When we really care for someone, we'd never want that person to be harmed, whatever we'd do for him or her is with all our will. Do whatever you can to show your care and make the person happy but never acclaim deeds done out of care. The only way we can be rewarded for them is with a smile from that person and when it comes from within, there's nothing like it.
Two simple and profound words but hold a lot of importance and when balanced well, the most difficult times pass with the wind like dry leaves..
So Share and Care and let troubles not Dare!
Cheers!
God Bless!!!
Chandra Daga
A prudent contemplation answered my question with just two words - Sharing and Caring...
I've observed that a lot of things in life turn to becoming problems as a result of lack of communication. Parent child relationships, matrimonial alliances, friendships... Tensions occur in all the spheres and they can be solved at the least levels by sharing. If people know we are hurt or have difficulty with few things they do, our side of tension has been taken care of. It's up to the other person to act next and its best for us to stay away from that space.. Some wise person had once said that crying lightens one's heart. I'm of the opinion that sharing unchains our hearts...
The other thing that can solve most of the hitches is Caring... When we really care for someone, we'd never want that person to be harmed, whatever we'd do for him or her is with all our will. Do whatever you can to show your care and make the person happy but never acclaim deeds done out of care. The only way we can be rewarded for them is with a smile from that person and when it comes from within, there's nothing like it.
Two simple and profound words but hold a lot of importance and when balanced well, the most difficult times pass with the wind like dry leaves..
So Share and Care and let troubles not Dare!
Cheers!
God Bless!!!
Chandra Daga
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