Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Make it Work!

I visited a website where an anonymous female threw this topic open for discussion.
She asked "If trust has been broken... Can it ever be gotten back?

I read a all the replies that she'd got. A few of them said It may be rebuilt, some said it can't be, some agreed that it can be but only to a limit. But the best and most honest reply I found was by a male who said "IN ONE WORD, NO!"

To be honest, I agree with the guy completely on this. I feel trust one broken can never be repaired. Even if it is, the scars will stay.

There was another post that I agree with...
"If You want to make it work, You will!!"

Trust is no doubt an important factor in any relationship. No matter the type of relationship, be it romantic, friendly, or between parent and child, an essential ingredient is trust and it can't be the same after being broken but if you really want to make the relationship work, the one who broke the trust should prove to be worthy and the other should forget the past. Yes, it does take time and its better to take time and heal a wound rather than leaving it to give you sorrow forever.

"Let your anger out.
Resolve to let it out and then let it go.
Give someone a second chance only if you rate that person to be worthy.
Know that things can never go back to the way they once were and keep your eyes wide open to future betrayals.

Once you've decided you will make it work, it becomes a lot easier to look at the happy sides and leave the tears behind..

The key is not to let time alone to heal it every time.
The key is to believe in the relationship and Make It Work!!

Cheers!!
God Bless!!

Chandra Daga

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