Achievement!!

Have you ever had the experience of meeting someone you once knew?
Not A friend or someone from far family..
Someone who is not related to you, Yet you know them..
Or In some cases, you know lesser people than people know you?

You are walking on the road and someone calls you by your pet name. You turn around to see who it is and it is a very old friend's mom. She smiles at you, talks to you, asks you what you've been doing and invites you home... It's a pleasant meet...

When your just passing buy the marketplace after buying something while talking to your acquaintance and you see a face who seems known... You don't know the name but you feel you know the person and even after that you ignore and walk away... After a few steps, both of you turn around, see each other and exchange smiles....

Knowing people is not a big thing... Remembering them is...
But the Best thing is to be Remembered!!

You don't know names and faces, Yet people remember you and give a second look after you pass by, is a big thing...
Who has time to think how you are... But when someone stops you and asks about you, Be proud to know you are someone worth remembering...

We Do remember many people, we also miss them and may be we can never tell them that we do. But when someone misses us, it is a small achievement!!
I call this achievement....

"WINNING HEARTS!!"

Win Hearts, Spread Love and Joy....
Being remembered is a Blessing... Be Blessed!!

Cheers!
God Bless!!

Chandra Daga

ONE LAST TIME...

Very frequent may be the cases when we get to meet the ones we are fond of...

After a while that very frequently becomes weekly, fortnightly, monthly, quarterly and then very long... Life has its speed and it goes on. But after we are into serious things like further studies, job, business or marriage, very rare are the times we get to spend with the ones we enjoy life with...

Family is always there, friends and some special ones too are there but you might just not find it possible to make it up at a get together or a dinner or may be even a coffee...
We think that friends are always there, we can meet them anytime. However far we are, whenever we meet, things will be the same...

It is nothing more than a mistake...

My best friend and I met one Friday at a Barista, we spoke lots and after a while left... When i was on my vehicle, leaving, he sat on his vehicle busy with his cell phone. I said "Take care", he looked up and waved... Saturday changed our lives... and we got disconnected with each other in a way that we cant talk to each other for life...

How I wish i should have stayed for some more time...
I wish I'd told him how special he is to me, how much I valued his friendship and his presence in my life...
I wish i could thank him for all the care and support..
I wish i could give him my best wishes for life...
I wish i could hug him one last time....
I wish.....

I share this personal example just to convey that whatever happens is Not in our hands... So Tell your special ones how Special they are to you. Fight with Friends and Tell them if its their Mistake. If it your Mistake, Apologize... If it is theirs', Accept the Apology. Spread Smiles to those who are upset.. Hug your Friends before departing, Give them your Good Wishes for everything they do. Give them Courage to face challenges, Thank them for their Support...

We never know when Life puts us in Wierd situations where you Have to Ignore the ones who you'd hug at the First Sight...

So Live It today!! Spread Love...

Jo Dil Mein Hai... Bol Do...

Cheers!!
God Bless!!

Chandra Daga

DAUGHTERS....

They bring an all new atmosphere..
Some are quiet, Some are playful, Some are naughty...
Some people are blessed with too many of them...
Some crave for them and some people do not want them...
But all of them are adorable and charming...

It is unfortunate to know the number of female foeticides taking place these days but the Fact is Daughters are not less than a blessing...

A Daughter cries when she sees tears in Mom's eyes.. She Learns from Dad.. She Helps siblings.. She Stands up and fights when the family is in trouble.. She takes the Teachings of her Parents and leaves for a new journey in another house, with someone else.. She tries to adjust in a new environment, accepting a bunch of unknown people as her family now.. She learns new things and adapts herself accordingly.. After this her Journey progresses as she takes different forms of a lady.. She is a Wife, a Daughter in law, a Mother and so on....

All these new roles usually take toll on the very first post that God sends her in this World with...

She is a Daughter..

The Little girl who was a Doll for her Grandparents...
The one who cares for her Brothers and Sisters as she learnt they were her Family..
The one who grows to become an Understanding Teenager but often does not show her True Feelings for her Mother..
The one who Looks up to her Father and has such Immense Love for him that she wants her future Life Partner to Be Like Her Father!!

The day her Wedding Day is decided, There are 1001 things going on in her mind about her life... From that day on, her life is split in to many more new roles. Finally the Day arrives when the Parents give away a piece of Their Heart to Someone they think will keep her happy and be her support at all times...

While Hugging the Parents and taking Their Blessing before starting a new Life, The Daughter / New Bride has Tears in her eyes..

Tears that say that the Golden years of her life with them are Unforgettable..
Tears that say she would miss all the crazy things she did..
Tears that say she'd want to tease her brothers and sisters again..
Tears that say she would die to fight with her mother for little things..
Tears that say "Dad... I always wanted to be Your Son!"
Tears that say she'l make sure her Parents Teachings help her succeed in the New Life..
Tears that say...... much more than I can put in words...

Dedicated To BHAVNA DAGA!!

(The one who is getting married in a month!!)
Wishing You a Life full of Love and Learning Experiences...

Cheers!!
God Bless!!

Chandra Daga

UNEXPLAINABLE...

How do you feel after being left alone...
How do you feel when you have no one to listen to..
When you have many to listen but none to understand how you feel...

How do you express you feelings for the one who is no more around??
How do you explain why you love someone so much when that someone doesn't care?
How do you get rid of some memories you do not want in the corner of your mind???

Unexplainable...

Talking to your closed one's won't help, you may just fire them or in some cases, it may be the other way round... It is not important to tell what you feel to anyone when you sure know no one would understand. Things just get complicated between you and the one you are telling...

Just talk to yourself... Missing someone is not bad at all... Your dear ones might ask you to avoid it though... Sometimes you have the strong feelings or intuitions that indicate the presence of some kind of happiness or sorrow around those special ones who have exited. This is something you can never explain...

But harming yourself, ignoring your self is not wise to do...

Miss them, Think about the good and the bad times you shared with them, Feel good about the compatibility you shared but most of all... Be Grateful for experiencing Those special moments, Thank the one who'd come to your Life and changed Things for you, Changed You!! Because rarely do you give the Power to Someone To Influence The way you think, the way you work or the way you Live...

Make sure you pray for their well being. Pray for you to be at peace...

To All Those Who Have Lost Their Love To Something called Destiny...

Cheers!
God Bless!!

Chandra Daga!!

Love is not what it is taken to mean these days...
Its the pure form of affection for someone...

When someone you've loved unconditionally departs from you, You want someone...
Someone to listen to you.... Just listen.. No philosophy, No free advices..
We wouldn't say much when someone listening to us interrupts us or tells us...
"Rehne de na yaar, woh tere laayak nahi"
"Hey.. Don't worry... You'l get someone better"
But the truth is slightly bitter...

All these are just to say.. When you have loved someone deeply. Done everything you could do for that person, their departure breaks you. I'm not saying that one should not get over a break up or should not overcome separation with a loved one ever... Everyone has a right to be happy and everyone should. Its not easy, but sooner or later, one has to realize that life would not have been the same without that special someone...

So it is good to reduce our pain n the trouble of our close ones.. They want us happy too... So don't make them feel they don't exist or they are not important... This was for those who have ever lost their loved ones..

This is for those who are close to those someones...
Please...
Listen to them.. just listen.. Because more often.. They feel light after talking about the good times they have shared with their love. Please avoid talking low about their love, It may just make them miss those loved ones even more... And nothing worse, because they can't talk to them...

Listen to them and when you do, notice the beam in their eyes and smile on their faces... Those are the good old memories.. The only things left after losing their Love!!

"Kisike zakhm ke sookhne mein madat na kar sako, toh use hara bhi hone mat do"

May God bless all with Abundant Love!!!

Cheers!!
God bless!!

Chandra Daga! :)