Monday, September 27, 2010

TRUST...

About Trust, A very famous saying goes...
If 'T' is separated from Trust, if becomes 'Rust'....
I'm sure all of us agree with that...

My observance tells me whether we give or don't give importance to the letters 'T, R, T' in the word Trust, We should not forget "U & S"... Because a relationship is made of two people and if those two people are overlooked for other things, the relationship is sure in danger...

There are different people we come across during our journey of life, those with different likes and dislikes. They may be of different opinions on the same thing which does not mean they can not get along. I and my closest friend are poles apart when it comes to the way we handle things, our likes and hobbies... Still we've been together for over four years now and we will be the same whether we talk to each other often or not...

Whenever you meet your dear one's, every time it should be like a new memory. This fresh memory only strengthens relationships... But you need not wait to talk to such people when there are strange things you get to know or feel about the other. Piling things up may worsen the case... Words used to get answers or to find out things should be selected very carefully. One word wrongly used may ruin the whole effort..

Trust once broken is hard to build and with people who are very dear to you, it shatters you like pieces of broken glass that can never be put together...

Life is short and we gain nothing from hurting anyone. There may be misunderstandings which can be cleared only by Talking and Listening. If you only Talk, You don't give a chance to the other to put their point. And if you only Listen, You won't be able to get answers for all your questions....

We trust only those who matter to us, those who are our family, close friends and spouses or partners... Relationships are very delicate and just a jerk may shake the trust factor which could never be fixed...

Just a piece of advice...
1. Don't trust anyone easily...
2. Don't hurt those who trust you!!

Cheers!!
God Bless!!

Chandra Daga

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