TRUST...

About Trust, A very famous saying goes...
If 'T' is separated from Trust, if becomes 'Rust'....
I'm sure all of us agree with that...

My observance tells me whether we give or don't give importance to the letters 'T, R, T' in the word Trust, We should not forget "U & S"... Because a relationship is made of two people and if those two people are overlooked for other things, the relationship is sure in danger...

There are different people we come across during our journey of life, those with different likes and dislikes. They may be of different opinions on the same thing which does not mean they can not get along. I and my closest friend are poles apart when it comes to the way we handle things, our likes and hobbies... Still we've been together for over four years now and we will be the same whether we talk to each other often or not...

Whenever you meet your dear one's, every time it should be like a new memory. This fresh memory only strengthens relationships... But you need not wait to talk to such people when there are strange things you get to know or feel about the other. Piling things up may worsen the case... Words used to get answers or to find out things should be selected very carefully. One word wrongly used may ruin the whole effort..

Trust once broken is hard to build and with people who are very dear to you, it shatters you like pieces of broken glass that can never be put together...

Life is short and we gain nothing from hurting anyone. There may be misunderstandings which can be cleared only by Talking and Listening. If you only Talk, You don't give a chance to the other to put their point. And if you only Listen, You won't be able to get answers for all your questions....

We trust only those who matter to us, those who are our family, close friends and spouses or partners... Relationships are very delicate and just a jerk may shake the trust factor which could never be fixed...

Just a piece of advice...
1. Don't trust anyone easily...
2. Don't hurt those who trust you!!

Cheers!!
God Bless!!

Chandra Daga

Paranormal!!

How many of us believe that there is another world?

A world that we don't usually see. or may be a world not many of us can see...
Some of us Feel it and some of us experience it through our closed ones.

Have You Ever felt someone is trying to talk to you? Someone whom you cannot see or not hear clearly? Have you ever got signs to stop or move one? Have you been troubled by something without any mistake of yours? Have you felt someone is taking control of things you should have control of?

For many these are just stories but those who have experienced or seen a dear one go through it know the real, dark, hidden truth. The truth that is unknown, unseen, unspoken, unheard and unexperienced!

It sounds interesting to listen to or talk about or even watch it from a distance. But such things are life taking at times. They change lives of others as well... It affects the dear ones and the faint hearted ones...

There does exist another world. There are paranormal and supernatural activities that happen around us! The citizens of the other world await us. Some may save us too. They are the good souls...

Do good deeds and be good souls... In this life and the other...

Cheers!!
God Bless!!

Chandra Daga

Ponder...

We humans very well know there are some things we will never get...
Yet we don't stop fighting to get them!

We know there are people who will never be with us...
Yet we Do everything possible to be with them!

We know someone will not be a part of our future...
Yet we cant stop thinking about them!

We know someone has broken our heart and We are shattered...
But we pray for that someone to have a bright Life! We never forget that someone whatever their deeds!

What are such relations, feelings, assumptions or anticipations called??

How do we name or define or explain them?

They can not be...
Neither Named nor defined or explained.!!

Because somethings in life are not in our control. It may not be the same for all of us, but there is something that we don't have a reason for!! Think over such things. Is it the Creator playing games with us? People who believe in God may say so....

What about people who don't believe in God or The Supreme Being? Why do strange things happen with them? Why do we don't have explanations??

Ponder....

God Bless!!

Chandra Daga

The Essence...

What is the essence of life??

Is it Reaching Greatest Heights??
Conquering Places and obtaining some Treasures?
Making a Fortune..
Or Living a Long Life...?

Jains have a different way.. They are born with an inbuilt attribute... Whether they do anything in their lives or not, They know One Way to get over bitter Memories and Wrong Doings...

Throughout the year, The most Auspicious Time is An Eight Year Festive and Holy Time... Spending Time in temples praying in the mornings... Attending Religious ceremonies in the afternoon.. Decorating temples and idols of Lords... Evenings in front of the Lord, Singing Bhajans in his Praise... Praying sessions, Fasts...

Different and interesting tasks keep them occupied all week. The eighth day is the day that is meant to ask for forgiveness... Truly Speaking, Forgiveness that should be asked for Immediately at the time of our wrong doing. But this is Universal Forgiveness...

From all the beings for all the hurt... With Folded hands and bowed heads, we ask for forgiveness and clear our hearts and the accounts of our sins...

Some sins can not be forgiven but Jains do not miss this day of Purification of Souls...

Why just Jains? I urge all People of all Religions and Castes to ask for forgiveness from all beings. Not for the happiness of others, But for Themselves, For their own peace and sanity...

Ask for forgiveness... Because the essence of life is not enjoyment or fun, its not long life or too many relations, its not looks or personality and its not even wealth or power... The essence of Life is Peace...

May God Bless All With Peace...

Cheers!!

Chandra Daga :)

Unconditional...

There are special people in everyone's lives...
Apart from family, there are some inseparable parts of our lives. We may not talk to them too often, we may fight with them or not see each others faces. Whatever be the situation, Our Hearts are always connected. Something tells us they are happy and we are happy to know that. Something indicates they are in trouble and we call or pop in front of them to shoo their worry away...

Whether you share a relationship that has a name or you have something that can't be defined using words, they are special to you!

Try it out! Take the example of someone you always think about. You want that person to be happy, you want to share his / her worries, want to help him / her handle things in tough times and sometimes just want him / her to learn to overcome problems on their own... There's someone who does not leave your thoughts despite the distance between the two of you. There is someone you would do anything for without wanting a thing in return...

After a thorough check up of your connectivity with that one person, you'd know that apart from love, care or even friendship, there is something that you can't explain... Can't express... That is unconditional!!

So whenever you have someone caring for you, trying to cheer you up, wanting you to be happy without saying why they feel so, acknowledge their efforts. Don't try find the meaning of what you share. Don't take it to mean something that is shallow and narrow... Leave it there.... It is something words can't express...

Cherish such people in life.. Life may take them away from you physically but Never let them step out of the Doors of your Heart!!

Cheers!!
God Bless!!

Chandra Daga

Parents...

They are the reason we are here... We know that very well!
But how much do we actually know?

Do we know the pain our mothers went through while giving birth to us?
Do we know how our dad would have felt when he first took us in his arms?
Do we realize how many wishes of theirs were unfulfilled for ours?
Do we know the amount of their prayers that always protect us...

We will never know these feelings unless we are parents!

They may scream at us when we are out till late, but its their worry for us. They may not want us to get along with wrong people, its their care. They may slap us when we back answer, they want us to learn manners. They may blast us when we don't eat food, its the pain they feel for us...

We do very little to make them happy, very little to express our love for them. I won't give advices or suggest what you to do things for them. Just one request...

Do anything but don't let a wrinkle appear on their foreheads because of you. If the wrinkle has appeared, Don't let a tears fall from their eyes...

We need to be the pillars to those who have been our pillars... From the time of our existence...

Cheers!!
God bless Our Parents!!

Chandra Daga :)

Best Line Ever...

There are many times I sit and think what is the best thing told by anyone...

Is it the line "I Love You!"
Or "I'm Sorry"
Or "I'm there for you!"
Or "Forgive and Forget"
Or any such motivational proverbs...

What's the best thing someone you love or the one who loves you could ever say....?

There's a guy who loves this girl from 4 years... He dint express his feelings then and they were apart...
They met after a long time but till then, the girl had been through a broken relationship. When they started talking again and the guy finally expressed his feelings, the girl dint know what to do!
Should she say yes and go with the flow?
Or should she just let the doors of her Heart be shut forever...

When the Guy realized that the girl was in a dilemma, he was all there to support her, stand by her adn comfort her.
He did everything possible to make her happy and expected nothing in return apart from Her Smile...

She used to be worried about the future. What would happen if they would not be together? How would things happen...

Just One line of his made her forget everything...
"Please give me a few days of happiness than giving me pain forever!"

This is a message to all those in Love who are worried of expressing your feelings and those who don't live their lives fully...

Make Your Loved Ones Happy. Keep Yourself Happy. Loving others is not wrong but Not Loving Yourself is Bad!!

Love Yourself, Express Yourself and Spread Happiness to the Ones You Love than leaving them in Pain!!!

Cheers!!
God Bless!!

Chandra Daga