Made in Heaven...!

"Made in heaven"...
This is usually how marriages are referred to... If that is the case, why are the precursors and aftermaths of marriage worse than hell??

I write today getting inspiration from some real life examples. Some incidents that have happened with my Dear ones...

Two people got acquainted in college, fell in love. The guy wanted to get married soon and girl could not. Time did not let them be together and today the guy is married to someone else...

A girl can not marry the one she loves because she is a few years elder to him...

A guy loves a girl and when he talks to his family about it and ask if they have anything against the girl, The reply he gets is... 'Conditions apply'!

A girl who loves someone is feared to tell her family about it because her elder sister was adamant at getting married to the one she loved. This gave the family a lot of mental trauma... She doesn't want to do the same...

A woman marries the one who proposes her and after a few years, she discovers that he was already married and has a family. She has two kids and is now bringing them up single handedly. The shameless husband stays with her 2 - 3 times a week saying he loves her but refuses a single penny to the family...

True it is... We are not Independent!!
Because we, being living people are not allowed to choose our partner, we are not let to walk out of a relationship easily, we are not allowed to love or dream of being with our love!!

Some of us are worried more about the family and sacrifice our love for it.
Age... is a reason given to overshadow the disagreement with Love!
Conditions are imposed...
Fear takes the place of Confidence in Love...
Marriage binds people, even when they know that they'd die of Suffocation...

For all these and more reasons, I'd like to restate what I'd started with... "Majority of the people Think that Arranged Marriages are Made in Heaven!!"

To all the parents who are reading...
Please understand your kids and support their love. They will respect you even more. Even if their relationship does not succeed... Your kid has made your job easier. You don't have to look for anyone. Just have a look at the one who's been chosen...

To all those who Are in Love...
All The Best!! :)

Cheers!
God Bless!!!

Chandra Daga