Forgiveness...

Your spouse has cheated on you.
Your friend has used you.
Your sibling has fought with you.
Your love has hurt you.
You have done something that you are guilty about.

We get angry and furious with everyone sometime in life. It may be the closest ones or any stranger for that matter. We don't spare God or even ourselves from our Fury...

We can't be saints and "Not Get Angry". We are Humans and we tend to get annoyed with things we dislike. Not only that, an overdose of things we like also irritates us sometimes. That's how we are designed...

There is some reason for our anger and many a times it is a valid one. But the truth, is however hurt we are or however guilty we feel, anger only causes destruction. To others and to Us... One simple thing called Forgiveness can help.

Forgiving someone is easy to say, convenient to think about and immensely difficult to do... But we should give it a try at least... One secret that i want to share from my experience is that "Forgiveness is not for the other, its for ourself"

Start with little things and you'll love forgiving. But first, if there's something you've done, that has hurt anyone... Before asking them to forgive you, You'd have to Forgive Yourself...

Don't forgive someone because they are right or whatever happened is now over.
Forgive... because you want yourself relieved of the burden.
Forgive... because you don't want bitter memories.
Forgive... because you want yourself to be happy.
Forgive... because that will help you forget...

Try it!! It works...

Cheers!!
God bless!!

Chandra Daga