Friday, August 6, 2010

Distance...

HOW DO WE DEFINE DISTANCE???

The Number of Miles Between....
OR
The Empty Space that exists despite being a Few Feet away??...

At College, I used to meet people everyday, sit with the class through interesting and sleepy lectures, hang out with friends, chat for hours in a Cafe...

In spite of all this, there were times when we argued and stopped talking to each other. We would ignore them, avoid looking even when we were sitting next to each other and sometimes also look out for a place that was not close to them. Verbal and physical fights also happened sometimes. A look of Grudge appeared on our faces till the time the other apologized... Of course with time, everything used to get back to normal and we would be back together...

When Me and My Friends were finally Graduates, we decided that we'd take time out at least Once a Month and Catch Up. Watch a Movie, Go Bowling or simply Talk about the Good old days... Some of us Got a Job, Some Studied further and Some got busy with Family Business. But the Distance was not Too Evident because we knew that we were Just a Message or a Call away...

One of my friends was going to stay with her parents in Nigeria. "I'll miss you" she said sadly before leaving. But both of us very well knew that however Far we may be in terms of miles, cities, states, countries or continents, We would Always Be Close at Heart...

Now that All of us are on our Own Paths of Life, I Realize that the days when we could have met each other and created more memories to Cherish for life, were lost in Stupid Arguments and Illogical Ego Clashes... Now that we all are doing Our Own Thing, we long to get a glimpse of them for Months altogether...

Distance is the Vacuum we create between Two Hearts... Kill your Ego, Give Less importance to who's right and Value the Person more, and You will have Best Memories that would make you Smile all your Life... Even when those people are not physically around, Their Stupid Pranks, Nasty Jokes, Sarcastic Comments and Our Fun Time will Keep Us Close...


To All my Dear One's...
I love you all!!

Cheers!!
God Bless!!!

Chandra Daga :)

1 comment:

  1. Very impressive!

    We do not realize the value of something or someone unless we lose it - thats humans.

    Nice message to all your friends. Hope they beat your pulse!

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