Confessions...

I love you...
I'm sorry... It was my fault...
I should not have kept this a secret, but...
I'm grateful for what you have done. Just want to say Thank You!

Confessions...
We love someone but never express our feelings.
We know we hurt someone dear, but we don't apologize.
We realize nothing should be hidden from the one's we care for but we hesitate.

I have had small fights and arguments, all of us do... We know that those people are close to us. They are Dear and they Matter. Even then, there is something that keeps us a step behind from expressing our feelings or accepting our mistake. We are hesitant regardless of the fact that they are people we Care for, they are the One's close to us...

It is usually termed as Ego, but the reason is not that. There are Fears...
For Instance, Fears of Confessing Love :
We don't want to lose the Friend in the person we love.
We just want them to be happy with whoever he / she is with.
We don't want to create troubles for them.

Confessions are sometimes necessary to make. Silence may distance us from our loved ones and we may end up losing them as well. It is indeed very difficult to say Sorry. When we close our eyes and think about the person we've hurt, Sorry will be nothing more than just a word. We can use that one word to tell them we care... After all, mistakes should be to learn from..

Words can not be taken back once blurted out and actions cant be reversed. Once we have the realization that it was not the right thing we did, all we need to do is talk but after listening to what the other has to say. Sorry cant heal all wounds, an Apologetic Face, A Soft Touch and Some True Tears can surely help.

We say that nothing can be kept a secret from the Dear and Closed ones. More often that is exactly what happens. Our love is kept secret by the Fear of our Parents. Spouses rarely know the Dark Secrets of the other. I understand that somethings are better hidden than being disclosed but when such secrets reveal, they break trust, hearts, relationships and sometimes even people.

We may be very grateful to some people for what they have done for us. Appreciating their effort and two words - Thank You, will not do any harm. It may just bring a nice smile on their face when they need it.

What should be done?
Blurt it out. Say I love you, The person will respect your feelings. Say Sorry, Things will get alright. Say Thank You, It may make someone's day. Once Your Confessions are made, your Honesty and Truthfulness will be given more importance than the Secret that had been kept. The Result will be Stronger Bonds, Blossoming Relationships and A Better Life!!

(For MITZI.... )
Cheers!
God Bless!!

Chandra Daga